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Wednesday April 25, 2007 |
April 25, 2007 |
okay,here’s an interesting piece. so,bare with the long-windedness. but this really did caught my attention. and its so frigging funny laa! 
Typically,men have larger skulls and brains than women. but the sexes score equally well on intelligence tests. this apparent contradiction is explained by the fact tht our brains are apportionated differently. women have about 15% more gray matter than men. gray matter – made up of nerve cells and the branches that connect them, allows the quick transference of thought from one brain to another. this high concentration of gray matter helps explains women’s ability to look at many sides of an arguement at once.
see what this means? thts how girls gets so emotional and we have the ability to come up with whatever reasons just to WIN, 
men’s brains, on the other hand,have a more generous portion of white matter. white matter,which is made up of neurons, actually inhibits the spread of information. it allows men to concentrate very narrowly on a specific task,without being distracted by thoughts.
“does this ring a bell in your mind when your bf/beau/husband/fiance says baby,im gaming right now?! “
the classic female mental process as “emphathizing”. emphathizing – as the drive to identify another person’s emotions and thoughts, and to respond to these with an appropriate emotion. emphathizers are constantly measuring and responding to the surrounding emotional temperature.
example : getting emo when necessary, get all teary eyes to get outta a situation 
in contrast, the ty[ical male mindsets would be “systemizing”,the drive to analyze and explore the system “bill gates? and my used-to-be gaming bf” ,to extract underlying rules that govern the behaviour of a system. a systemizer is less interested in how people feel than in how things work. “emo is useless,in other words.hahaha”. the systematic brains influences virtually all aspects of the typical man’s life.
ONE FINAL WAY that men and women differ is their typical responses to problem-solving. ironically, it may be this very activity – tht creates the most conflict between partners of the opposite sex.
*Keep reading*
to a woman,like myself,the process of solving a problem is ALL-IMPORTANT. “dont you agree,sometimes results isn’t everything right?”. talking about a problem is a means of deepening the intimacy between her and her partner.the very anatomy in her brain, as well as her accompanying emphathetic mindset,makes her want to consider all sides of a question and to explore various problem situations. “we all believe in options,dont we?”
and so,to have a partner who is willing to explore a problem with her is deeply satisfying. she interprets that willingness as an expression of the other’s love and concern.
BUT
MEN have almost completely opposite approach when it comes to dealing with problems. everything in their mental makeup tells them to focus narrowly on the issue,solve it and get it over and done with. the ability to fix a problem quickly and efficiently is, to them, a demonstration of their power and competence. when a man hears her female partner begins to describe a problem,his strongest impulse is to listen briefly and then tell her what to do about it. “jumping into conclusions,and face-valued reactions”. from his perspective,he has made a helpful and loving gesture,
BUT
FROM A WOMAN’S point of view, he’s short-circuited a conversation tht could have deepened and strengthened their relationship. “ hot-tempered,bring out the ego in YOU man.”
i hope you had a great time reading this,and of course relating apart of this to your very own personal lifes. perhaps,there is a scientific explanation behind all these arguements,huh?
i hope you enjoyed this. i typed it all out from a book man,tiring..
toodles,once again. liverpool must kick chelsea’s big blue-soontobe-pink ass!
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