I’m not firm believer when it comes to counting the months of being in a relationship to begin with.Well I had my fair share of counting; as much as it marks a certain time line or rather direction, some use it to determine the strength of the relationship based on the length of it. I’ve ought to admit that i was once,very much the sort of anticipating months after months celebrating like some kinda trophy; some for ex-factors,some for self assurance maybe that i’m heading the right direction.

Happy 1st Month baby
Happy 2nd Month darling
Happy 3rd Month dear
Happy 1/2 year honey
Happy 1st year hubby wtf

I was silly enough to count monthly till it was Happy 34th Month anniversary,that it sounded absolutely dumb to think about celebrating another five years down the road and if you were to multiply them its probably gonna be in hundreds! Yet again,most of us rely on the timeline and the duration of the relationship as some form of scale to weigh the love,strength of the relationship and some kinda trophy partner kinda personal self-inflicted ego?

Then you’re in for all the wrong reasons.
You’ll be surprise how people value a relationship based on its duration.
Yes,perhaps the amount of time spent together,experiences,memories all stocked up can definitely be placed as a factor to compare between a three month relationship with a three year old one.
That should just be it.

Its a matter of opinion though,seriously.
Perhaps i’ve moved onto another phase,where I’d rather look forward to my every tomorrow then to count the days that’s passed; not gonna feed my insecurities that way.It may be tough to begin with,but as long as you don’t cling on and despise changes which is bound to happen, be adaptive over circumstances, and doing your part as individuals in the relationship; anything is possible.

My upbringing made me a super adaptive chick which has a huge mindset
of her own okay,i kid you not.Sometimes i even wonder if i’m only turning 21;
felt like i’ve lived passed that age.Maybe i’m secretly turning 33,hohoho.

I skipped the first month,and jumped on the second month bandwagon wtf.
As much as life is going in circles,that sometimes we often miss out on all the good things that surround us.Every journey is worth the gamble,and I’m on heck of a gambler I must say.The beauty about beating the odds,is priceless.

Anyway,yes these two videos would showcase EGo in action. One of the many things that we have in common,would be the singing part of it.Wait for the duet okay,wait for it! This was the video recorded on Chef Cheerio #2, you’ll be able to catch me in between the video saying “OMG,so gay!” and find it out yourself.The video was taken at my place,with EVo & Selena which explains the background noises!
Whoooops next time we shall learn to remain silent to enjoy the performance.

Remember this night?