Good day folks. Since I’m feeling so lousy and bummed today,might as well write about something totally unrelated but squeezing out some juice off my brains could do me good. This isn’t totally random,and coming out of nowhere; for the past 1/2 year there’s been so many cases of under-aged pregnancy,cases of girls being knocked up and forced to marry; whatever happened to the “blissful marriage”, and of course abortion.

Its starts off with sex.

Pregnant Teens

Most teenagers,I’m trying to not relate any of this issue to myself in anyway; so this is a general point of perspective post about the recent back to back cases revolving around me. Under aged pregnancy is when one chooses not go opt for abortion,but being pregnant at sixteen is crazy! And if you are intending to keep the baby, you’re probably an overgrown child to get caught in this situation?

I’m in no position to comment on the possible consequences,but its illegal & either choices made by a teenager of such tender age will change their lives forever.

1. Its not a debate between it being right or wrong; but its definitely a life changing decision.
2. It puts your parents at the toughest possible position.
3. You’ll definitely meet better people as you age,especially in your 20′s!
4. Abortions at a very young age might affect that you in ways you’d never imagine.

Knocked Up Young Followed By Marriage

We’re surrounded by very skeptical people,and yes of course its not exactly the happiest moment to share (unlike married couples) because there are so many things to consider all at once. I’ve had a couple of recent incidents where people get pregnant,they call it the shot gun marriage. People of this category are probably steadily dating in their 20′s – 30′s; in an inverted commas steady relationship and seeing the possibility of walking down the isle.

Having the shock of their lives,coming from a woman’s perspective; great she’s pregnant,gotta inform the boyfriend and at her age  where they’re smacked right in the middle of a situation where they have finances to manage and most of the time a career to build. Here’s my two cents worth,spare me for my opinions; blame my age factor.

1. For one, most chicks would probably dream of a dreamy proposal where you boyfriend pops the big question of Will You Marry Me because he thinks its the right time. Timing is probably one of the most important factor when it comes to getting married,its all about the timing.
2. So,having to place both the couple in a situation where they’re marrying because a baby is about to arrive on earth; sometimes the consequences in the years down the road can be, very rocky. If happiness and love cannot be forced,what more marriages?
3. Lastly,people change and grow. Marriage is a huge deal to me,and probably just the same for everyone else. It is important to know that you don’t want your marriage to end up as the biggest mistake in your life ten years down the road!

And I’ve not mentioned some cases where the boyfriends who can’t seem to take the shocking unexpected news; they might just walk out on you due to the pressure. Never say never,it happens.

Totally unrelated picture to cheer things up a little bit

Abortion Gone Wrong

Abortion is probably one of the most common words related to pre gnancy. Did you know that abortions are four times more dangerous than child birth? [source]

Suction
The abortionist first paralyzes the cervix (womb opening). He then inserts a hollow plastic tube with a knife-like tip into the uterus. The tube is connected to a powerful pump with a suction force 29 times more powerful than a home vacuum cleaner. The procedure tears the baby’s body into pieces and the hose frequently jerks as pieces of the baby become lodged. The placenta is then cut from the inner wall of the uterus and the scraps are sucked out into a bottle.

Dilatation & Curettage (D&C)
Uncommon today and used during the first 10 weeks of pregnancy. This is similar to the suction procedure except that the abortionist inserts a curette, a loop-shaped steel knife up into the uterus. He then cuts the placenta and baby into pieces and scrapes them out into a basin. Bleeding is usually profuse.

Dilatation & Evacuation (D&E)
Performed during the second trimester (4-6 months) of pregnancy. This method has largely replaced saline and chemical abortions, which too frequently resulted in live births, a complication from the abortionist’s perspective! A pliers-like instrument is needed because the baby’s bones are calcified, as is the skull. There is no anesthetic for the baby. The abortionist inserts the instrument into the uterus, seizes a leg or other part of the body and, with a twisting motion, tears it from the baby’s body. This is repeated again and again. The spine must be snapped, and the skull crushed to remove them. The nurse’s job is to reassemble the body parts to be sure that all are removed.

Salt Poisoning a.k.a. “Candy Apple Babies”
Most often used after the first trimester (first three months). The abortionist injects a strong salt solution directly into the amniotic sac (fluid surrounding the baby). The baby breathes and swallows it, is poisoned, struggles, and sometimes convulses. It takes over an hour to kill the baby. The mother delivers the dead baby in a day or two (sometimes alive!). Why “candy apple” babies? The corrosive effect of the salt solution often burns and strips away the outer layer of the baby’s skin. This exposes the raw, red, glazed-looking subcutaneous layer of tissue. The baby’s head sometimes looks like a candy apple. Some have also likened this method to the effect of napalm on innocent war victims. This technique was originally developed in the concentration camps in Nazi Germany.

It may not be a huge ordeal to most because sex is probably the most enjoyable part between the relationship of a man and a woman; but its time that people stop putting the whole “I can’t be that lucky” or I’ve had sex so many times(experienced) that there won’t be any accidents. I’m here to highlight on the consequences when you have unprotected sex out of wedlock.

Abortions remains illegal in our country,and for most; but I’m pretty sure that its happening right under our noses behind scenes. Girls at tender age of fourteen,being in Form Two chasing after the hottest boys in school who happens to be barely seventeen (so bloody young!) he can barely drive a vehicle what more be a father to a child?

Ignorance.A purely ignorant society towards such social issues.
Why is it such a taboo to educate the younger generations (I’m not that old wtf) that there’s a price to pay for everything and sometimes it doesn’t come with a warning. If you do get pregnant,there’s a living being in your body; an abortion can indirectly mean murdering your own child. I’ll leave that subjective part of personal interpretation to you.

So please practice safe sex.

P.S Writing this post was tough,and I nearly puked 2347239846982364982635 times right clicking to save the images off the web.The uploading part was dreadful,but its all for a good cause.

Related posts:

1. Babies Aren’t Garbage!
2. Baby Brianna’s Death; Abused & Raped.
3. Plastered With Magic.

Posted on Monday, January 18th, 2010 in Blogosphere, Cheerio thinks a lot. Subscribe to this comment feed. Leave a response, or trackback from your own site.