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Little Miss Wrong. |
September 24, 2011 |
Nothing good ever comes easy. Sometimes we suppress how we feel about situations that it gets unhealthy that it comes back to haunt you; like a ghost. Its all part of growing up, to be treated unfairly in uncalled for situations; things happen when you least expect them to, but everything happens for a reason. It doesn’t mean that one pathetic soul who cheats and lie to you define the entire mankind, that everybody is out there to hurt you. I believe that life lessons comes in ways where you’ll only realize that these things are meant to teach you the value of life that’ll strengthen your beliefs 60 years down the road. I would like to believe that sometimes life is cruel when it tears all your hopes and dreams apart, but if you look at the statistics; generally every successful adult would have gone through multiple phases of hardship before they arrive at the dock of success.
Cheers to the stranger who believes that life is meant to be ugly, and everybody hurts. They say that upbringing and growing up trauma shapes the person that you are now. Some people get bullied in high school, some bullies in high school and some just live invisibly. I know I may not be the greatest example but there’s a reason why I am this way today. Regardless of how tough it was, I came out of it; and look, where are you now? There’s a reason why people change for the better, and never fear changes. I look forward to my tomorrow’s, I love changes, and I live in the present. Its weird I know when I write about the past so much, and I talk so much about the future too; don’t conclude me just yet, I only write about it. In reality, I take one day at a time.
Lately I’ve witnessed a pour damaged soul screwing up his beliefs and faith in life. Its a really sad situation when you watch the people you care about fall into the darkness. Darkness can be a phase where you go in circles despite having multiple exit routes along the way. Its that feeling of being stranded; yeah it may be give a sense of familiarity; but being in the dark for too long causes you to fear the slightest glare of light.
When the world says, Give up.
Hope whispers, Try it one more time.
To this one person in my life who finally grew courage and woke up to reality; your nightmare is now over. Love is unconditional, and its never selfish. Love is kind, and as cliche as it sounds; it gives you strength when you run out of fuel. If you’ve been so wronged in the past, deal with all the emotions; don’t suppress them. You deserve better, and start by being a better version of yourself. Don’t live off the past, don’t conclude that its probably your best memory yet; because frankly speaking its a whole pile of crap. You found happiness not because of the ones who gave it to you; you’re happy because you found yourself, that’s happiness.
A sense of belonging.
Home is not where you are physically; its where your heart is. There’s no need to build your life around someone else’s beliefs, make something of your own; and grow up with it. Some people are just not worth your time and tears. I don’t know where you found the strength to face your demons, but I’m glad you’ve vanquished them out of sight. Its time to wake up that this world is beautiful only when you choose to believe that it is; you’re after all the artist painting the canvas of your life. What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger, and once you conquer your demons; you’ll feel like you can take on the world again.
Someday, ten years down the road; it’ll be insignificant. Just like the rest,it’ll be just another phase in life. We go for upgrades in life, so be sure; never to settle for anything lesser than what you deserve. Life maybe unfair, but God is fair.
Finally, a smile on your face.
Good riddance.
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