Lets talk about how the simple word misunderstandings. You hear,but you don’t listen. You don’t absorb the points being made. so what causes this breakdown in communication? its simply because we have different backgrounds, experiences and histories. the way we view the world and interpret events differs. These differences easily lead to clashes. Once tempers rise, we say what we choose instead of choosing what we say. these quarrels amplify the misunderstanding and further the separation.The first step towards eliminating misunderstanding is to realize that we are all both different and the same.

Social conflicts i would say, often involve misunderstandings. Parties in conflict communicate by what they say and how they behave toward each other. Even normal interaction may involve faulty communication,but conflict seems to worsen the problem.when the two people are in conflict,they often make negative assumptions about “the other”. Consequently, a statement that might have seemed innocuous when two parties were friends might seem hostile or threathening when the same parties are in conflict.