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Friday June 20, 2008 |
June 20, 2008 |
Surrender to the fact
that life isn’t fair please!
“Rise and shine sleeping beauty” was the first thing i heard the moment i woke up this morning. Heck tho i’m no beauty,but rise and shine is good enough. 
First and foremost, i am so sorry for all the delayed replies on my cbox, the quickest i can get is when you provide your own blog link URL*. Like what i mentioned in the previous post, i spent my whole day doing nothing else but catching up with my sleep. My sleeping therapy worked effectively and i am all geared up now. 
Ready for another round of bull crap on something
i read over on the blogosphere lately?
A friend of mine,in response to a conversation we were having about the intolerable behavior of an individual who kept emphasizing about unfairness. Lets not get too bitchy here shall we? And my response to the whole injustice of the situation, who said that life was going to be fair,or that it was even meant to be fair in the very first place? I know that situation varies,but lets just skip the details and accept the simple fact that life is indeed unfair.Its such a bummer,but its absolutely true.
Ironically,recognizing this sobering fact can be a very liberating insight. One of the mistakes many of us make is that we often feel sorry for ourselves, or for others, thinking that life should be fair (erm like knockknockknock wake up?) 
or someday it might just be fair! Its not, and it won’t. when we make this one mistake, most of us tend to spend a lot fo time wallowing and complaining about what’s wrong with life. We commiserate with others, discussing the injustices of life.
ITS NOT FAIR,ITS NOT FAIR!
we complain,not realizing that perhaps it was never meant to be, One of the nice things about surrendering to the fact that life isn’t fair is that it keeps us from feeling sorry for ourselves 
by encouraging to do the best we can with what we have. Life’s not a job to make everything perfect,its our own challenge which i am still yet to live up to. Surrendering this fact also keeps us from feeling sorry for others because we are reminded that everyone is dealt with a different hand and everyone has unique strengths and challenges. (why am i so philosophical wtf)
I had my own struggles feeling rather victimized or unfairly treated but it almost always wakes me up to reality and puts me back on track over and over again. 
The fact that life isn’t fair doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do everything in our power to improve our own lives or the world as a whole. So start kicking away those negative thoughts and screw whatever may. I don’t see a point in living in denial. Pity, of course is a self-defeating emotion that does nothing for anyone.
Thats all folks.
i am ellie smelly. 
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