I’ve once been in a relationship where I was hit,and boy I was sixteen.Its obvious that women are indeed the weaker sex physically unless you’re some wrestling queen who can beat up your lover wtf which I am obviously not. 
Abusive men deserves no second chances, because a leopard never loses its spots. There’s no excuse, no reason for any individual to hit another individual; what more two individuals in a relationship. Thankfully I’m very much in safe hands now,he hits but only when I am harmed. 
Proven,but ugly.
Its been months since,and finally Rihanna speaks out, in an exclusive interview with Diane Sawyer on Good Morning America. Pop sensation Rihanna is speaking out about the night her then-boyfriend Chris Brown beat her, saying it was “humiliating” and “traumatizing” to admit the assault took place and that it was “wrong” that she went back to Brown afterwards.
“It was a wake-up call. It was a wake-up call for me. Big time,” Rihanna told “Good Morning America’s” Diane Sawyer in her first television interview discussing the assault. “I will say that to any young girl who is going through domestic violence, don’t react off of love. F love. Come out of the situation and look at it in the third person and for what it really is.”
The pop star said it was “embarrassing” that Brown was the type of person she fell in love with.
“So far in love. So unconditional that I went back. It’s humiliating to say this happened. To accept that? It’s a traumatizing experience,” she said.
I was in that abusive relationship,and you know what caused the first hit.
When I caught him cheating with some malay chick,confronted him and a big slap to my face telling me to shut the fuck up. Dad gotten some folks to beat the crap out of him outside some cyber cafe which I didn’t know about,but two months later; I finally broke it off. Never thought I’d ever bring this up,but Rihanna’s totally right; women often end up convincing themselves that love is unconditional.
Love works in different ways,and its conditional in its own contexts.
Much love,cheerios.
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You are ACE for writing this post. “A leopard never loses its spots”. Hear, hear.
And like Oprah said; “if a man can hit you once, HE WILL DO IT AGAIN.”